We are now in our 7th house in this country. 7 times we have simple mud buildings
into homes. We’re starting to get
the hang of it. One of biggest
chores of the process of setting a house up is finding skillful help that can
get things done in some rendition close to what we hope for. Each time there is some job to be done
in our house I have to think through:
- What is the local interpretation in how to do this?
- What is the common capacity in actually getting it done well?
- Can I accept the finished result?
If I’m doubtful (which is common), then I think through:
- Do I have the tools and materials to do the job myself?
- Do I really want to spend my time doing the job myself?
- If I’m doubtful on these questions as well (which is also common), then I come to the point of compromise, and work together in some way with a local man in order to get the job done.
Plumbing is a great example. Most plumbing here is added long after a house is built, so
it sits outside the walls (which sure beats having a leaky pipe within a mud
wall!). A couple times I have
borrowed tools and done plumbing renovations myself, but as we moved into our
house this time I decided I did not want to spend my time changing the pipes so
we could hook up our automatic washer.
So I found a guy named Fize who purportedly worked on plumbing, invited
him into my bathroom, showed him what my problem was, and asked him how he
could solve it. This is one of my
favorite questions, because it invites an open answer that immediately
indicates what kind of projects or solutions the worker is used to
providing. Usually guys will
answer very quickly with their first idea. If that idea involves something drastic like knocking down
walls, or something ridiculous like duct tape and twisty-ties, then I just
smile and thank them for their suggestion (said in the right way, “thank you”
in this language means “NO thank you”).
Usually guys offer their ideas quickly, but when I asked
Fize how he would solve my plumbing problem, he rubbed his chin and pondered it
for several minutes. Finally he
answered, “well, I’ve never done something like this, but I think we could
try…” It didn’t really matter what
he said next, he had already won the bid by showing thoughtfulness and
humility. I actually wasn’t sure
if his idea would work, but I thought he was the right kind of guy to work
with, so I sent him off to the bazaar to buy supplies and bring his tools. When he came back he unloaded a whole
bag full of plumbing fittings, and we started to figure the puzzle out
together. Fize laid the pipes and
fittings out in the way he was thinking, then he looked for my feedback, and
listened when I explained another option.
This is all so unique from the other men I have worked with on repairs
in my home! Not only did he come
with plenty of supplies (as opposed to not quite enough, which is then
sabotaged into a ‘good enough’ solution), he worked together with me, to make
sure we both agreed on the best solution.
If you look at the picture below you’ll see that the pipes
and fittings had to be tightened together in just the right order, otherwise
the turning of one pipe would run into another. We worked slowly, paying attention to the whole process of
steps we were taking to complete the job.
By the time we were done, we had water flowing to the toilet, the
bathroom sink, the cloth diaper sprayer, the shower, the washer, the kitchen
sink, and a tap for buckets. Fize
was pleased that we succeeded, and said, “I didn’t know it would end up like
that, but it works great.” I was
thinking the exact same thing.
I’ve taken the time to tell you about Fize, because I think
he’s a unique guy. Usually trying
to work together and negotiate solutions with guys here is kind of like taking
turns stomping on each other’s toes.
Fize was interested in serving and in learning, and that’s really
unique. Since this plumbing
project, I’ve also had Fize knock down a wall, cement a floor, and fix my
motorcycle’s broken wheel. He’s
done great at every job. I look forward
to working with him more, and getting to know him better. You can pray for this guy when you think
of it, that God would be working in his heart, while I’m working with him in
practical ways.